9 best BDSM toys to try
Team January 29, 2023 comment on 9 Best BDSM Toys to Try
Are you part of the BDSM world? Or are you looking to incorporate some more intense fantasy into sex?
A BDSM survey conducted by sex toy brand LELO revealed that over 80% of participants have tried spanking in bed or been tied up, over 40% have been whipped and 30% have been muzzled.
It doesn’t matter which of the BDSM aspects (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism) most pleases you, it is certain that there is at least one sex toy waiting to be used in your fetishes and increase this fun between domination and submission.
From BDSM beginners to couples who just like to get involved in some occasional shenanigans that derive from some aspect of BDSM, below are 10 sexiest and most affordable BDSM toys or props for you and your partner to try out.
1. BDSM whip
Ideal for: Feeling pleasure and pain at the same time.
Do you or your partner like to be spanked or punished? Apply some discipline with a BDSM whip for beginners, usually designed with a plastic handle and a wrist strap to give you more control. Whips (or floggers are usually made with straps that can be made from softer or harder materials and designed to whet a thrilling fear and inflict pleasurable pain on the submissive lover. You can provoke them with gentle jabs or a strong, satisfying grip .
Where to buy: Red Tulip for Rs65.79
2. Sale of satin
Best for: Getting turned on by sensory deprivation.
Whether it’s roleplaying, stimulating a fetish, or sensory deprivation, a satin-touch blindfold can add a whole new dimension to BDSM sex. They offer a snug, snug fit to prevent any peeking out, and their soft lining allows them to be worn over long periods. It’s effective in activating your senses and making you focus purely on the moment and the sex itself. In addition to at the same time helping the user to get rid of inhibitions. Not to mention, it’s also great for anyone looking to get a good night’s sleep.
Where to buy: Secrets Intimates for Rs29.90
3. Ball gag
Best for: Wanting to simply feel pleasure in silence.
If you like to be submissive during sex, a large silicone mouth gag is great for anyone looking for full mouth restraint. Many of them are hypoallergenic, odorless and tasteless for comfort during use. Plus, they have multiple holes to ensure easy breathing – yet still leave you speechless. Great for getting excited when feeling punished and while enjoying excitement and anxiety at high levels. For dominating lovers, you’ll love watching them drool and hearing the sounds they make as they try to talk or orgasm.
Note: It is important to define a “safety signal” so that it can be triggered in cases of unwanted discomfort.
Where to buy: BDSM India for Rs21.00
4. Leg separator
Best for: More extreme sex positions .
While practicing bondage, you can explore a variety of eccentric sex positions with a leg spreader. Separators are often softly padded and Velcro closed for your comfort and security, and some even have two pairs of built-in restraints – one pair at the end of each bar and the other in the middle. Designed to open the submissive’s legs, you can use this for oral sex , deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation. Let your imagination run free here.
Where to buy: Lolla for Rs69.90
5. Nipple clamps
Ideal for: Men and women who love to play with their nipples.
Bold and elegant, nipple clamps or clamps guarantee increased sensitivity in this, which is one of the most important erogenous zones . They keep your nipples hard and sensitive and can be pleasurable torture for those who like to be punished. Want to go a little further? Opt for a fully adjustable pair, so you can choose the pressure you want. And of course, there’s nothing stopping you from hanging items on the chain for a tighter, more intense feel.
Where to buy: Lolla for Rs39.00
6. Rope (Bondage)
Best for: Practicing the art of shibari or some moderation with a partner.
Have fun restraining, enveloping, suspending and binding your partner with a strong, sexy and silky bondage rope. A silky finish feels smooth against the skin for a mix of comfort and erotic excitement. You can be as creative as you like as these strings allow for diverse designs and full body delivery for an erotic aesthetic and sensual entanglement. The more practice you get, the faster you’ll become a shibari pro.
Where to buy: Lolla for Rs29.00
7. Leash collar
Best for: BDSM lovers who enjoy a choking erotic experience.
This BDSM object meets fashion for the existence of luxurious leash collars. Dominatrixes and submissives alike can be aroused by consensual games of slave sex while enjoying the swaying and tugging sounds of a super-polished and often removable chain. The collars are comfortable and usually have an adjustable buckle to tighten a little and increase the pleasure. Get ready to show your submissive who’s boss or to submit to your lover’s desires.
Where to buy: Lolla for Rs29.90
8. Bed straps
Best for: A more intense bondage experience.
Want to dominate your partner? Turn your bed into a sex den with a sturdy bed restraint. Straps are available on almost all bed sizes and the handles are fully adjustable for minimal comfort. Dominants can enjoy making their lover pleasantly vulnerable and helpless to their power. From anal sex to erotic massage with escorts services, the possibilities of what can be done with the submissive are endless (with consent).
Where to buy: Cupido Distribuidora for R$21.00
9. Feathers
Ideal for: Couples who enjoy slow, sensual foreplay .
If you love a little foreplay before BDSM sex, then a light feather running over your entire body will make you feel goosebumps all over. Available in a range of sensual shades, they have a soft feel for exploring sensitive areas and a lightweight handle that’s easy to manipulate. Tease and caress your lover’s skin with a few sensations and you’ll get an erotic response like no other.
Where to buy: Castelo dos Prazeres for R$7.95
Safety with BDSM Toys
Before using BDSM toys, it is important that you read the instructions for each one carefully and research how to perform sexual acts with them safely.
In addition, best practices for BDSM safety are always:
- establish consent
- set limits
- recognize the risks
- Use a safety word or sign (especially if you are using sex toys that obstruct speech)
- Play sober and not under the influence of alcohol or drugs
- Communicate openly and honestly
- Know how to use your sex toys or tools correctly
- Prepare for any emergencies (e.g. have a phone nearby)
- Never leave a tied person unsupervised
And remember, all toys must be thoroughly cleaned before and after use for hygiene and safety reasons.If you prefer, at Misskolkata you can find companions who can fulfill your desire to use one or more of these BDSM objects. Choose now here .
